Monday, April 18, 2016

Blogging from A to Z: One Square Mile Living (Oh the Irony!)


During the month of April last year, I participated in the A to Z Blogging Challenge - one alphabet-themed post per day (except Sundays).  I had such a good time with it that I'm doing it again this year.  I'm loosely organized on the theme of downsizing, minimalism, and small-home living that I've learned in 14 years of living on a small boat.  I'm starting with A is for Anchoring Out, Anger-ing Out, and ending with Z is for Zout and Zwarte Peper (Dutch for salt and black pepper). Click on the A to Z logo on the lower left sidebar for links to many other bloggers participating in the challenge.

A little more than one square mile around our present home marina (image modified from Google Maps)
There were 3 separate periods in my life when I drove more than an hour each way, each day, from home to work. In all 3 cases, I had an awesome job and lived in an awesome location, and didn't want to give up either one. So I drove. A lot. I remember hating how spread out my life was, and how little time I had to actually enjoy my home town, and wanting to literally "get my life together" by getting everything in one place. Wouldn't it be wonderful if everything we needed in life, school, work, shopping, home, play, was all within close proximity?

There was lots of talk about "one square mile living" around that time. Of course, this describes any downtown of a big city ... but I don't really want to live in, say, Manhattan. (BT, DT, no thanx not again). There are also new planned developments that had shops and offices and restaurants on the ground floor, and apartments above, you could walk to everything and didn't need a car.  Truly, one-square-mile living. Everyone, it seemed, was hopping on the small-footprint bandwagon, except us. I drove about an hour and a half north from our home to my job, and Dan drove about an hour south.  Sigh. We'd occasionally declare a car-free day one weekend day, enjoying the novelty of being no further from home than walking distance for 24 whole hours.

Fast forward to retirement and cruising, and finally had the opportunity to do the one-square-mile-living thing ourselves.  Had to, in fact, since we couldn't very well have a car as we sailed the boat from place to place. We found ourselves drawn particularly to smaller historic port towns -- Annapolis, Beaufort, Southport, St Augustine. Walkable by their very nature; they were all laid out before the invention of cars. Although we truly didn't need a car, we'd rent one every few weeks just for the weekend, to run errands conveniently, and to explore the surrounding areas. The irony? Now that I have that, and we've been car-less for going on 4 years now, I'm longing for wheels again, for roaming more widely.

"Be careful what you wish for, you may get it." Indeed!

18 comments:

  1. I love driving and taking long trips. But I also love days where I go nowhere I can't walk to. Since I write, full time, I'm always at my job so no need to travel for that. I love Annapolis.

    Susan Says

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    1. Looks like you have the best of all world, Susan!

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  2. We commute 90 miles a day for work- sometimes one way (45 miles) will take 45 minutes, sometimes 2 hours! I have this fantasy of settling down somewhere where I can walk to work, the store, the pub! I guess even fantasies get old! - Lucy

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    1. I **love** being able to walk to the pub! And living right in the heart of tourist-land, we have several here to choose from!

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  3. I think you have the best of both worlds as you can always rent a car:)

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    1. I think we do, too. And we're renting one this weekend, because your recipe for "P" made me crave pears!

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  4. I do love walkable places. I felt really uncomfortable in many parts of the US just for the fact that it was almost impossible even to get to a grocery store without a car. It bugs me. :D

    @TarkabarkaHolgy from
    The Multicolored Diary
    MopDog

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    1. There were lots of things I *didn't* like about living in Manhattan when we were there in the late 1990s, but I really liked that place was the definition of walkable!

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  5. I liked it when we lived in Portland because we could walk to everything we needed - grocery store, library, shops, restaurants, parks etc.

    Cheers - Ellen

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    1. Portland Maine or Oregon? I only spent a couple of days in either Portland, but both were definitely places I could go back to.

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  6. I love walking to places, too! The town we winter the boat in has a population of 5,000. The marina is on a dead end road. The downtown area is one block long. I can walk to the library, the grocery store, the local pubs, the beach. There's even a great trail the runs through rain forest for my morning walks. It's perfect!

    Stephanie

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    1. That does sound like just the right size! I love the image of having a walking trail right there.

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  7. living in TX, everything is far apart. My husband and I drive an hour each way in different directions. Friends are an hour away - can't just pop in. I like your description of small town walking...but..indeed - careful what you wish for.

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    1. We had the same situation when we lived in Colorado: it was at least a half-hour drive to anything - work, groceries, recreation, friends - and all of those were in different directions!

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  8. Haha. How is it that we always want what we don't have. I think finding the right balance and - in your case - renting a car once in a while, will bring some yin and yang. :-) Being a European, I love visiting places where you can walk everywhere.

    Liesbet @ Roaming About – A Life Less Ordinary

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  9. Liesbet's comment about being European and walking everywhere reminds me of an apartment we rented one winter on Aruba. It was advertised on both European and U.S. websites. The ad on the U.S. websites said, "...we recommend you rent a car while you stay here, as the beach is 0.6 miles away." The same apartment, advertised on the European websites, said, "...No need for a car! The beach is only 1 km away!"

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    1. That's classic and so funny! I guess it is all about perspective. In the US, I drive 2.5 hours to see family, thinking it is nothing. But when in Belgium, I feel like I can't go visit my friend in Germany, because she is so far away (2.5 hours) and in another country! Driving 30 minutes in Belgium to get somewhere is far. I take the bike to the store. Here, I need to drive 30 minutes to go to a decent grocery store!!

      Liesbet @ Roaming About – A Life Less Ordinary

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    2. Haha, my Dutch friend says the same! We were planning a trip to Holland, to visit one friend in Amsterdam and another in Arnhelm (sp?) and the Amsterdam friend said she'd always considered that drive too far -- but then she visited Texas, where *everything* was that far!

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